The divorce process can be difficult for children. Our custody orders and separation agreements often contain language about the do’s and don’ts for parenting during the separation. Here are a few examples:
- Each parent should maintain a safe and suitable environment for the children
- Each parent should foster feelings of love and affection for the other parent and refrain from alienating them
- Each parent should treat the other civilly and with respect
- Each parent should keep arguments private from the children
- Each parent should communicate regularly with the other parent about the children’s needs – medical, educational, and anything else affecting their welfare.
If you’re heading to court, the judge will be instructing you to prioritize your children over the conflicts that led to the end of your relationship. Details about the case or allegations made in court should not be shared with the children. If one parent – or both parents – continue to fight in front of the kids or expose them to unnecessary information about the court case or separation, the judge will take note of that fact and it could impact the outcome of the case. Setting the right tone early for how you will be co-parenting can make the process a lot smoother.
Let us help you focus on your family by supporting you through your separation. Contact us today at (704) 829-8195.